If you are smart and think alot you can do well renting and investing elsewhere.

You can also ask what is life about?

This is hard to do because the conclusion may need to break moulds, leading to family estrangement and losing friends.

I suspect people who end up having a TED talk in them are people who had the ability through courage or their inherited neural makeup to go it alone despite descenting voices. Or they were raised to be encouraged to do so.